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How do we tell the children? : a step-by-step guide for helping children two to teen cope when someone dies, Dan Schaefer and Christine Lyons
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- Summary
- Now in its third edition, this updated classic guide has been expanded to feature new material to help adults as well as children cope with the impact of traumatic events. Dr. Schaefer's advice is not only for parents but anyone in a caregiving role, including older siblings, grandparents, extended family members, and friends. The revised quick-reference "Crisis Checklist" responds to children's frequently asked questions with helpful scripted answers. Dr. Schaefer, working with child psychologists and trauma experts, and drawing on more than three decades of experience with families in crisis, has put together a practical guide for anyone who works or lives with children -- parents, care-givers, counselors, or teachers -- for dealing with children's inevitable questions about loss and change, life and death. He provides adults with strategies to assist children with grief and trauma and offers time-tested advice and language that children can understand. The book includes sections on what children think about death; explaining death to children; fear, confusion, and sadness; grief and healing; the funeral and saying good-bye; talking about AIDS; communicating with mentally ill children; and a personal story of parenting through trauma
- Language
- eng
- Edition
- 3rd ed.
- Extent
- 1 online resource (xvii, 203 pages)
- Contents
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- Introduction: The Solitary Mourner
- What Children Think About Death
- Two to Six Years
- Six to Nine Years
- Nine to Twelve Years
- Teenagers
- Explaining Death to Children
- Death of a Grandparent
- Death of an Immediate Family Member (Mother, Father, Sibling)
- Infant Death
- Death of a Friend or Classmate
- Accidental Death
- Murder
- Suicide
- Aids
- How to Talk to Children About Someone Who is Dying
- How to Talk to a Mentally Retarded Child
- Death of a Pet
- Grief and Healing
- Common Reactions to Grief
- The Special Needs of Children
- The Grieving Process
- Problems to be Prepared for at Various Ages
- Dealing with Anger, Guilt, and Responsibility
- Helping Your Child to Heal
- Expectations for the Grieving Child and the Best Ways to Respond
- Traumatic Stress
- One Personal Experience of Trauma by Dr. Lisa Hudson
- Schools and Trauma
- The Funeral--Finding a Way to Say Good-bye
- Telling Children what to Expect
- A Good-Bye Gift
- Questions Your Child Might Ask
- "Life Goes On" / Pat Travis Rosenberg
- Label
- How do we tell the children? : a step-by-step guide for helping children two to teen cope when someone dies
- Title
- How do we tell the children?
- Title remainder
- a step-by-step guide for helping children two to teen cope when someone dies
- Statement of responsibility
- Dan Schaefer and Christine Lyons
- Subject
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- Parent and child
- Children and death
- Parent and child
- Death -- Psychological aspects
- Children -- Counseling of
- Bereavement -- Psychological aspects
- Bereavement -- Psychological aspects
- Children and death
- Death -- Psychological aspects
- Teenagers -- Counseling of
- Teenagers -- Counseling of
- Children -- Counseling of
- Language
- eng
- Summary
- Now in its third edition, this updated classic guide has been expanded to feature new material to help adults as well as children cope with the impact of traumatic events. Dr. Schaefer's advice is not only for parents but anyone in a caregiving role, including older siblings, grandparents, extended family members, and friends. The revised quick-reference "Crisis Checklist" responds to children's frequently asked questions with helpful scripted answers. Dr. Schaefer, working with child psychologists and trauma experts, and drawing on more than three decades of experience with families in crisis, has put together a practical guide for anyone who works or lives with children -- parents, care-givers, counselors, or teachers -- for dealing with children's inevitable questions about loss and change, life and death. He provides adults with strategies to assist children with grief and trauma and offers time-tested advice and language that children can understand. The book includes sections on what children think about death; explaining death to children; fear, confusion, and sadness; grief and healing; the funeral and saying good-bye; talking about AIDS; communicating with mentally ill children; and a personal story of parenting through trauma
- Cataloging source
- DLC
- http://library.link/vocab/creatorName
- Schaefer, Dan
- Dewey number
- 155.9/37/083
- Index
- index present
- LC call number
- BF723.D3
- LC item number
- S33 2001
- Literary form
- non fiction
- Nature of contents
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- dictionaries
- bibliography
- http://library.link/vocab/relatedWorkOrContributorName
- Lyons, Christine
- Series statement
- A Newmarket parenting guide
- http://library.link/vocab/subjectName
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- Children and death
- Death
- Bereavement
- Parent and child
- Children
- Teenagers
- Bereavement
- Children and death
- Children
- Death
- Parent and child
- Teenagers
- Label
- How do we tell the children? : a step-by-step guide for helping children two to teen cope when someone dies, Dan Schaefer and Christine Lyons
- Link
- Bibliography note
- Includes bibliographical references (p. 187-196) and index
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- volume
- Carrier category code
- nc
- Carrier MARC source
- rdacarrier
- Content category
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- Contents
- Introduction: The Solitary Mourner -- What Children Think About Death -- Two to Six Years -- Six to Nine Years -- Nine to Twelve Years -- Teenagers -- Explaining Death to Children -- Death of a Grandparent -- Death of an Immediate Family Member (Mother, Father, Sibling) -- Infant Death -- Death of a Friend or Classmate -- Accidental Death -- Murder -- Suicide -- Aids -- How to Talk to Children About Someone Who is Dying -- How to Talk to a Mentally Retarded Child -- Death of a Pet -- Grief and Healing -- Common Reactions to Grief -- The Special Needs of Children -- The Grieving Process -- Problems to be Prepared for at Various Ages -- Dealing with Anger, Guilt, and Responsibility -- Helping Your Child to Heal -- Expectations for the Grieving Child and the Best Ways to Respond -- Traumatic Stress -- One Personal Experience of Trauma by Dr. Lisa Hudson -- Schools and Trauma -- The Funeral--Finding a Way to Say Good-bye -- Telling Children what to Expect -- A Good-Bye Gift -- Questions Your Child Might Ask -- "Life Goes On" / Pat Travis Rosenberg
- Edition
- 3rd ed.
- Extent
- 1 online resource (xvii, 203 pages)
- Form of item
- online
- Media category
- unmediated
- Media MARC source
- rdamedia
- Media type code
- n
- Specific material designation
- remote
- System control number
- (OCoLC)1035689561
- Label
- How do we tell the children? : a step-by-step guide for helping children two to teen cope when someone dies, Dan Schaefer and Christine Lyons
- Link
- Bibliography note
- Includes bibliographical references (p. 187-196) and index
- Carrier category
- volume
- Carrier category code
- nc
- Carrier MARC source
- rdacarrier
- Content category
- text
- Content type code
- txt
- Content type MARC source
- rdacontent
- Contents
- Introduction: The Solitary Mourner -- What Children Think About Death -- Two to Six Years -- Six to Nine Years -- Nine to Twelve Years -- Teenagers -- Explaining Death to Children -- Death of a Grandparent -- Death of an Immediate Family Member (Mother, Father, Sibling) -- Infant Death -- Death of a Friend or Classmate -- Accidental Death -- Murder -- Suicide -- Aids -- How to Talk to Children About Someone Who is Dying -- How to Talk to a Mentally Retarded Child -- Death of a Pet -- Grief and Healing -- Common Reactions to Grief -- The Special Needs of Children -- The Grieving Process -- Problems to be Prepared for at Various Ages -- Dealing with Anger, Guilt, and Responsibility -- Helping Your Child to Heal -- Expectations for the Grieving Child and the Best Ways to Respond -- Traumatic Stress -- One Personal Experience of Trauma by Dr. Lisa Hudson -- Schools and Trauma -- The Funeral--Finding a Way to Say Good-bye -- Telling Children what to Expect -- A Good-Bye Gift -- Questions Your Child Might Ask -- "Life Goes On" / Pat Travis Rosenberg
- Edition
- 3rd ed.
- Extent
- 1 online resource (xvii, 203 pages)
- Form of item
- online
- Media category
- unmediated
- Media MARC source
- rdamedia
- Media type code
- n
- Specific material designation
- remote
- System control number
- (OCoLC)1035689561
Subject
- Bereavement -- Psychological aspects
- Bereavement -- Psychological aspects
- Children -- Counseling of
- Children -- Counseling of
- Children and death
- Children and death
- Death -- Psychological aspects
- Death -- Psychological aspects
- Parent and child
- Parent and child
- Teenagers -- Counseling of
- Teenagers -- Counseling of
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